Saturday, 1 November 2025

Phoenix like...

 Okaasan bounced back!

Supplementary oxygen is down to 1 lt, blood pressure meds are reduced again...she was probably well enough to be moved to the bathroom for her first bath in 3 weeks.

Amazing.

She looked good. Skin tone and condition. Just little nose tubes for the oxygen, rather than a mask. Regular breathing, combined with the involuntary eye opening that started last month.

Really...that's surprising. Two weeks ago we kind of thought it was the end.

A couple of readers have asked me about the supplementary feeding in Japan - I don't know exactly, but it appears that if the family chose nasal or arm tube feeding, that's only good for a few weeks. One of my students - she and her sisters chose "only arm drip" feeding for their mother and the doctor told them life expectancy was 3 weeks, at most.

Three? years ago we chose shoulder-entry point only feeding (rather than stomach, which we'd heard involved a small operation) - so that's what Okaasan is on. And once chosen,  you can't ask it to be stopped.

Non-resuscitation request means "no" to heart pumping, in the event of heart failure. It doesn't mean "no" to meds that keep the heart active.

I think. 

There is an NPO that offers guidance and a document to fill in to lay out End of Life treatment requests/preferences. I think I even GOT the initial documents a few years back. I should look into it all again. A major translation would be needed. Maybe I should pay for that and offer the results as an aide for other English-speaking residents in Japan?

Things to think about...when I'm not brain-dead in front of a Netflix drama, or holding down the cat for his SubQ shots to stave off kidney failure. Life gets in the way of death planning...

So. Onwards....not sure if Okaasan will stay in the room near the nurse station, where they closely monitor patients. Or be moved back to a regular room.

But. Really. Amazing.