Here we are!
Okaasan and Me Festa! Festa!
The hospital annual summer festival for patients and families was a wonderful WONDERFUL event.
Big and well planned. Staff in festival jackets directing cars, manning game corners and food and performances. Lots of kids - lots of old people in wheelchairs - pajamas - festival coats - aloha shirts - music - balloons - food!
The physical training room transformed, corridors decorated.
We had a blast.
Dear Son was on his last day of bike taxi working with the special customer, so I was the family member with Okaasan for this event and she and I ate our way thru octopus balls, friend noodles and shaved ice with syrup - had our picture taken, pulled lucky strings and chatted to lots of friendly staff and volunteers.
Okaasan had a good time, watching the kids play with their balloons and laughing and smiling. She kept asking me WHEN the commemoration photograph had been taken - "was this a long time ago?"..."No, it was 3 mins, 10 mins, 20 mins 1 hour ago...look you and I are wearing the same T shirts now!"...
After 4 months of hospitals and stress, it was nice to do something normal and fun with her.
Can she come home soon? I guess....one nurse said she is now walking with a frame....
We had a toilet visit together, and I took off her dirty diapers, but had to get a nurse to help with putting on fresh diapers...it's strange this - to change from being the friendly family member to saying "sit down, do this, go here, lift your bum, let's change these"....crossing back and forth over the personal line .
Anyway. A good day.
After the festival I went for a long walk by the river, came home and watched TV...went out with Dear Son for dinner, ate Christmas Cake and ice cream - a present from a British friend...it was a good day.
You both look happy in this picture, and I am glad to read that you were able to do something fun for your both. I hope that she can stay in a care home. I know she is walking better, but I think it would better/safer for her, and less stress for you, to have her in professional care.
ReplyDeleteGlad you had such a nice festival together. Even if she doesn't remember it tomorrow, she enjoyed it while it was happening.
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